What if, before starting tantric massage, you first had to leave your “self” behind?

Some people you touch... and they don't give up.

Their bodies are there, but their consciousness remains suspended. On alert. In control.

So, as I progressed, I realised that touch alone wasn't always enough.

Sometimes it was necessary to open another door. A subtle, invisible door... that of the altered state of consciousness.

That's how this third ritual, reserved for certain stages of the route.

An entrance massage, but unlike any other.

A journey of initiation that begins even before the first gesture.

Why change the state of consciousness?

Because without that, the mind is king.

Because if sexual energy is awakened without being guided towards consciousness, it remains locked within the erotic framework.

And because Tantric depth only exists when the being disidentifies itself, becomes fluid, becomes space.

In the tradition of Yoga Nidra As in gentle hypnosis techniques, we find the same principle: lulling the mind through repetition, sound and visualisation.

And that's what I do in this ritual:

I whisper, I rock, I guide. Not to suggest. But to disentangle.

I'm not touching it yet. I'm telling the story. I breathe out a slow narrative, as rhythmic as a wave.

Induction: becoming vague, becoming silence

The person is lying down.

And gently, I invite her to breathe.

To imagine a wave coming in through your feet, up to your head, and then back down again. And then again. And then again.

Then the body settles on the warm sand.

You can hear the waves.

You can feel them.

And little by little... you become vague.

We dissolve.

You're no longer “someone”.

We are sensation, breath, sea.

Sometimes, at this point, I slip the Sankalpa.

This inner seed, planted in the sacred space of the unconscious.

And it's in this opening that the massage begins.

Not in the flesh. But in the invisible.

A testimonial:

«It wasn't my body any more, and yet it was me».»

A woman recently went through this ritual.

This was his third session.

I knew she was ready.

At the end, she said to me:

«I'd never experienced anything like it. I could feel my body, yes.

But I sensed it from another level.

I was experiencing pleasure, but on a different level.

As if I were the wave, the sand and the wind all in one.

Everything was more intense, more vast.

It was magnificent.

I feel like I've touched a part of myself that I never knew existed.»

That's why this ritual is not offered at the first meeting.

For women, I reserve it for the third session. For the men, I reserve it for the fifth session.

Because it requires deep trust.

A readiness to dissolve. And to get out of the story of oneself.

What this changes: moving from the erotic to the sacred

When awareness changes, when the mind calms down, massage is no longer a sequence of gestures. It's a passage.

Sexual energy, freed from mental projections, can circulate freely.

The body becomes a temple.

The person becomes animal, breath, wave, fire, prayer.

And in this dissolution, something very rare happens: connection.

To yourself. To something bigger than yourself.

To what Tantra calls essence.

It is at this stage of the practice that the masseur fully embodies the Tantrika.

An invitation to discover this unique ritual

This ritual hypnotic is not a technique.

It's a sacred space. A threshold to the invisible.

If you feel the call of a deep inner journey, if you feel that the mind is holding you back, I invite you to discover this ritual as part of the Toucher de Soie®.

Because it's only by letting go of the “me” that we can really come back to ourselves.

In the deep waters of the soul ,

Hajira