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What is the source of touch?
What is this impetus that carries me into contact with others?
I have a very strong memory of the many ways in which my being has been touched.
I say «my being» and not «my body», because in reality, being touched is more than just tact.
We say «he undressed me with his eyes».», or «those words touched me!
And yes, Touch, is also about receiving and being touched.
But to receive, you have to be in a state of listening and availability.
A state of being, It's an instrument that allows the giver to pick up the vibrations played with his fingertips, to feel them in depth, and to open up to the multiple sensations of this dance for 2.
I've already felt the loving touch of a person who claimed the opposite ...
I also felt the cold, uninhabited touch of someone who claimed to love me...
Touch has a power over our emotions.
Through touch, the other person can define what we mean to them.
And sometimes that same touch can tell us that we don't matter.
At least, that's how WE interpret the other.
What if it was just a clumsy touch?
What if that sense just isn't sharp enough?
In our modern society, everything pushes us to disconnect from our own bodies, our true essence and our wild nature.
In 2009, to meet this deep need for reconnection and personal transformation, I created Toucher de Soie®, a innovative method inspired by tantra.
This unique journey offers a path of massage rituals and a training dedicated.
It allows, in the first instance, to to clear bodily memories of injuries and limiting beliefs to reclaim the body and one's own intimacy.
It then leaves a new imprint, marked by a deep connection to yourself and spiritual upliftment.
For those who don't know me, I am Hajira, (meaning one who travels).
In love with Love, I've been observing its complexity since I was very young.
With a thirst for understanding the human being, I soon embarked on several trips to Asia (in particular India, the cradle of Tantra), Africa and Latin America.
I'm discovering different peoples in their relationship to the body, to intimacy and to love.
I decided to learn from them about massage, alternative medicine and mystical dance.
It was in Italy that I met a Tantric initiator.
She opened the first door for me in the universe of Tantra through the expression of Touch.
This foundation, combined with my own knowledge, enabled me to embark on this new journey alone, that of body and mind.
Throughout this journey I have met «beings of light», sources of inspiration, revelation and love for me.
But putting it into practice very quickly brought me face to face with humanity's greatest wound: the clear split between the individual as defined by :
Without thinking too much, I freely embarked on various experiences of the body and various psychoanalytical therapies.
I have, so to speak, immerse my body in full awareness.
A kind of purification of being.
I was slowly detaching myself:
An encounter with chaos.
But isn't it in the ruins that the hidden treasures are to be found?
Destroying everything is good for rebuilding!
It was in these ruins that I found my nugget.
The one I have polished over the last 15 years through practice and results, named
« Silk Touch® ».
Because silk symbolises preciousness, softness, emotion and travel...
Being touched at the deepest level of our being reveals the preciousness of our soul and connects us to the universe. YOURSELF.
And every day I taste the pleasure of life, in all its forms.
I carry this message of freedom within my® Silken Touch.
Le tantra is an ancient spiritual practice that emphasises bodily awareness and the unity of mind and body.
It teaches that our body is a sacred temple.
By honouring this temple, we can access deeper levels of consciousness and freedom.
Inspired by these principles, to help people reconnect with their bodies,
the approach Toucher de Soie® »draw from
After a long quest, cradled by various teachings, I have supplemented my method with knowledge of Western sex therapy.
to adapt the tantra original, to the current needs of our Western society.
Le Toucher de Soie® is the fruit of the personal experiences of participants in the rituals and training courses offered over the last 16 years.
Le Touch of Silk® is much more than a simple massage; it is a true quest for liberation and personal transformation.
First, embody your body by accepting yourself as you are,
Allow yourself to feel fully.
Explore freely the experiences that come your way.
Accept your hidden desires and affirm who you are.
Learn to love yourself so that you can better share life's precious moments with others.
By transcending socio-cultural barriers, the Toucher de Soie® allows us to rediscover the essence of our being and our wild nature.
It invites us to detach ourselves from external influences in order to reconnect with our true selves.
A way to cultivate joie de vivre.
The massage ritual Toucher de Soie® is a multi-stage journey.
Each step is designed to release physical and mental tension and bring about deep relaxation.
And, above all, to experience a profound transformation.
Here are some of the key steps:
Each stage of the ritual is designed to offer a transformative experience, leading to emotional release and spiritual reconnection.
For massage practitioners, yoga practitioners and therapists, the Toucher de Soie® training offers a unique opportunity to learn and master this method.
The course is structured to provide both theoretical knowledge and practical skills, enabling participants to enrich their intimacy and become certified practitioners.
Participants in the course will discover not only how to practice the Toucher de Soie®, but also how to integrate these principles into their own lives for ongoing personal transformation.
Le Touch of Silk® is designed to help you change your reality by freeing you from the social and cultural barriers that hold you back.
Numerous testimonials from participants point to profound transformations, ranging from emotional release to improved self-esteem. Here are a few examples of transformations experienced:
Establishing a bond with others, or even with yourself, is very difficult when you lack self-confidence.
To escape their loneliness and isolation, they decide to understand and get to know themselves better. By reconnecting with their bodies, a sense of well-being and confidence is fostered, boosting self-love and self-esteem.
A way to educate the body to a new relationship with intimacy, for oneself and with another.
In the Tantric vision, spiritual elevation is first and foremost the ability to experience the unity of body and mind.
This feeling of unity is like an ecstatic bubble that grows over time thanks to the liberation of the chains that enclose body and soul.
It is written that the soul is nourished by beauty, joy and serenity.
In Tantra, pleasure is an offering to the body to thank it for carrying us every day.
The 5 senses - sight, hearing, smell, touch and taste - and the senses of smell, touch and taste. offer us infinite possibilities for nourishing our being.
Then there are the other senses, the ones we don't talk much about, located in the energy gates, the «chakras», connect us to our different planes of consciousness.
Refining our awareness of who we are by releasing blockages on different levels activates these energetic gateways.
Subtle and vital energies can circulate fully.
The living experience of the body propels us into a space beyond matter, where we feel a deep connection to the Whole, to the Self, to nature and to everything around us.
By rediscovering our wild nature and reconnecting with our true essence, we open the way to spiritual upliftment.
Le Toucher de Soie® (Silk Touch) promotes this deep connection, enabling everyone to find inner peace, spiritual clarity and the joy of feeling alive.
Touch of Silk® offers a complete method of personal and spiritual transformation.
By inviting you to reconnect with your body and release the memories that hold you back, this practice opens the way to a more fulfilling and connected life.
An invitation to enjoy life to the full: enjoyment being a highly spiritual act.
Join us to discover and practice Toucher de Soie®, Embark on a journey of profound transformation and spiritual upliftment.
With love and passion,
Tantric massage practitioner & trainer
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Because intimacy is a sacred path.
Because touch can heal, awaken and transform.
Because you deserve a respectful, in-depth and embodied approach.
Le Toucher de Soie invites you to explore your body in a deep and sensitive way, to awaken your vital energy and reconnect fully with yourself.
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